Funny, my mom said something like this the other day. She said it's because a woman spends so much years with her significant other and as a result has to cater to him and get use to his ways/habits/life. Having to readjust to a different man, especially at an old age takes too much effort... or something like that... you would probably understand it more than I would.

On the internet we're alone together, so it works out.

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I can show you how to hump without making love.

The way you look at me, I can tell that you're a freak.

No, that isn't weird. When CAFG said "I keep her", I took this to mean that they're still together. If you break up with someone, they aren't your significant other, so what I said wouldn't apply.

I think "them" was referring to "someone"

thread is full of cute :3

Marriages in my church end in "for all of eternity" instead of "until death do us part", which I support (to a degree). Then again, most Mormon pplz don't divorce.

I thought that was if you got married in the temple.

It is stupid. I won't argue that it should logically follow that if you like someone, you should want to be around them alot. I will argue that women (and men, in different ways) don't work that way. If you show nothing but love (or nothing but hate) to someone, they will distance themselves from you.

Yeah, that is true in most cases. Maybe someone has trust issues. Maybe someone was abused. Maybe someone has emotional scars. Maybe they're afraid of the fact that they can love someone so much. Maybe they're scared that the love won't be returned. Maybe they're afraid that someone actually can love them totally for who they are. It's a tough thing to have a truly mature heart and maybe nobody even reaches 100%, but there are some who can get pretty close.

In my opinion it's a matter of sexual tension. Remove the tension, remove the interest. If you give yourself to the other person on a silver platter, you become obtainable and boring. Or maybe that's not what you're talking about. Meh I feel like the concept still applies.

I feel like if you're still approaching it like a game, you're not sincere. One night stands and serious relationships are not that same thing, contrary to popular belief.

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In my opinion it's a matter of sexual tension. Remove the tension, remove the interest. If you give yourself to the other person on a silver platter, you become obtainable and boring. Or maybe that's not what you're talking about. Meh I feel like the concept still applies.

Not all relationships focus around sex/sexual tension/gratification. Not sure if it's because you're still in high school or what but trust me when I say the best relationships consider sex a natural product of the relationship, not a necessary building block to the foundation of the relationship.

But meh, maybe that's just the "nice" part of me talking.