Help, I can't find any women I find attractive.
1. Where are you looking?
2. What types of things do you automatically consider unattractive?
3. Are you sure your reproductive organs are functioning properly?
1. Churches, restaurants, grocery stores, bars/clubs, classes, etc...
2. Short legs and non-red hair.
3. Let me check. Edit: Yep.
You just gotta keep looking, man. She's out there somewhere and hopefully not already with a different guy.
Norm, my girlfriend is the jealous type. She would flip out over things like some girl joining my forum game. Is there a remedy for this?
I would not suggest trying to remedy jealous girlfriends, that just means they love you a lot (maybe too much). However, if you ever decide to end the relationship, you may need some assistance or a restraining order.
Oh, also, last night when I stopped for gas on my way back to Utah, some chick came up to me and told me her wallet was stolen, so I gave her a few gallons to get home. I told my girlfriend the story, but kept it gender-neutral ("They were out of gas, so I helped them"). Was that a good move? Should I have not mentioned the story at all? Should I have not kept it gender-neutral?
You did the right thing, don't worry.
HEY NORM
I was talking to my friend about girls that other day and I asked him why I wasn't getting any. He told me that I should "Spit Game".
I can tell from this that your friend is infinitely more wise than me, perhaps you should seek advice from him instead.
Scenario: Tonight I'm going out to see a movie (Catfish) with a girl from my past. And it's just us, so it's kinda a date.
History: In the past, she had a huge crush on me. I did not find her attractive(she was a lil chubby), so I consistently shot her down, and forced her into the friend zone. Not long after, she somehow manages to get a guy I can safely say is hotter than me. Suddenly, she loses all the weight, and is actually very hot now, maybe out of my league even. Anyways, he finds a hotter girl, and treats my friend like shit so that she'll break up with him. I've hung out with her since, and never got that old 'this girl likes me' feeling from her.
Hypothesis: It bugs her that I never liked her back, and she's just trying to get me to lower my guard, and tell her I like her, just so she can feel vindicated, and then proceed to drop me off a cliff.
Advice to rekindle her old dead feelings?
Play it normal. If you can remember how you acted back then, try to keep in character. This will prevent you from falling victim of possible revenge. Girls generally don't plan things in the long term, so if she is using her newly acquired good looks to bait and drop you, she's expecting you to pick up on it fast. However, by acting cool you will send the message that she's actually not in a position to do this. Girls are only as attractive as guys tell them they are, remember that.
If you play it casually, you will see her true intentions. Girls will tell you what they want... eventually. Go to the movie, have fun, and don't make a big deal about it. If you start to get the feeling that she's still attracted to you and not planning revenge, just stick with it. You can either make the move when the time is right, or wait for her to do it herself if you're feeling weary. There are also advanced techniques to provoke females into admitting feelings for you sooner, but don't worry about them for now.
Post has been edited 1 time(s), last time on Oct 4 2010, 6:32 pm by Norm.
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