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Assuming you plan on marrying her before going too far, I would say go for it.

A majority of my ex girlfriends were virgins when we started dating. There's nothing wrong with that. In my experience, though, the stereotype of a person getting very attached after losing her virginity is very true. That's not to say its necessarily a bad thing, but there were a couple cases where "getting very attached" became synonymous with "clingy" and that wasn't very fun.

Virgins are gold. If you can find one, you're in luck!

If no one had sex before marriage, you would only be able to date virgins. I don't see a problem here. except that you're asking for relationship advice on SEN...

You're not going to have sex so who cares. >_>

That is so true.

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My advice is to not have sex. Really. Because then it can become about the sex and not about the relationship.

This topic is misleading.

Virgins are not equal to 'women'. They are girls.

Ignore this. The sex is the good part. The relationships are the shit part. You'll learn to realise this over time.

The real question is, why WOULD it be bad. I mean I know generally all guys care about is banging a woman, but myself, the hopeless romantic I am, care not for the sexual part of the relationship.

Girls just seam like such better people if theyre a virgin, or if theyve only been with one guy their entire life. Else they just seam like tools.

Those guys grow up. Well, eventually. We hope.

Ah, are guys like this better people as well?

It's only an issue if you make it one, really. But if you do end up in a situation where she is uncomfortable and/or doesn't know what to do, you will have to be honest about what feels good to you. Otherwise she's stuck guessing at best and things might not go so well. Then again, if you're with someone who thinks they know what they're doing but it doesn't actually work for you, you should be honest about that, too. So, no, I don't feel that there isn't anything inherently bad about dating a virgin.

^ All the relationship advice you ever need.

Frank Zappa is crazy xD

Is the girl worthwhile?

Then why the fuck does it matter who she's slept with before.

I think some of the opinions here are very interesting.

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can be a bad thing

This is probably the most successful topic I've ever made.

I think it's an incredibly stupid topic. Who cares if she's a virgin? Your 17 years old, not 30. It's not like you should be worried about the girl's sexual life. I find it kind of disappointing when I realize that someone I know fucks guys left and right (even though almost all the girls in high school are like this). It really shouldn't matter at all if you like her. If you fuck her, prepare for some retarded attachment from her.

When you say "fucks guys left and right" do you mean different guys or the same guy? (in the context of an amount of time, like "when they are dating she fucks him left and right")

No, there's nothing wrong with it.

I've deflorated a lot of girls in my time, and none of them have been "clingy" or gotten "too attached". Just gotta man up and let the bitchez know.

Didnt mean to put it out like guys are superior and they can do as they please, but this was turning into a discussion about the female creature, not humans in general

I understand, there are just some people that uphold a ridiculous double standard about that.