[quote=name:-_- Kame -_-]Want to talk to him? This is what you say: "You hurt her, and I'll hurt you." I dunno why, but my guy friend did that to one of the guys I was dating...and the poor boy snapped.[/quote] ! You're a girl?

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Want to talk to him? This is what you say: "You hurt her, and I'll hurt you." I dunno why, but my guy friend did that to one of the guys I was dating...and the poor boy snapped.

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You're a girl?

Well I used to be...then I got a sex change.

Well I used to be...then I got a sex change.

:lol:

You can't really tell if he likes her or not. I'm chasing after this girl and we really developed something but I think I'm still in the friend zone. She leaves opportunities for me to jump in, or at least that's what I'm thinking, but I don't take it because I think that I am taking what he is sending off wrong. Maybe he is just scared to initiate, so either one of them should just grow balls and confront! /Hypocrite

You can't really tell if he likes her or not. I'm chasing after this girl and we really developed something but I think I'm still in the friend zone. She leaves opportunities for me to jump in, or at least that's what I'm thinking, but I don't take it because I think that I am taking what he is sending off wrong. Maybe he is just scared to initiate, so either one of them should just grow balls and confront! /Hypocrite

[color=#b5b5ff]The common view of ostensibly "serious relationships" as a linear progression toward sex is wholly disturbing..[/color]

The common view of ostensibly "serious relationships" as a linear progression toward sex is wholly disturbing..

Yeah, I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl. [quote][color=black]1000th post![/color][/quote]

Yeah, I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.

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1000th post!

[quote=name:EcHo]I know this isnt relevant but I thought that guys were the ones that are supose to chase girls most of the time. This is like the exact opposite with me and this girl.[/quote] Fuck that. I hate initiating relationships. I don't think I've ever actually asked a girl out. [quote=name:DT_Battlekruser][color=#b5b5ff]The common view of ostensibly "serious relationships" as a linear progression toward sex is wholly disturbing..[/color][/quote] It's more exponential. ;)

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I know this isnt relevant but I thought that guys were the ones that are supose to chase girls most of the time. This is like the exact opposite with me and this girl.

Fuck that. I hate initiating relationships. I don't think I've ever actually asked a girl out.

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The common view of ostensibly "serious relationships" as a linear progression toward sex is wholly disturbing..

It's more exponential.

[quote=name:-_- Kame -_-]Well I used to be...then I got a sex change.[/quote] :lol:

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Well I used to be...then I got a sex change.

This girl obviously likes the chase; once he asks her out, she won't be interested anymore.

This girl obviously likes the chase; once he asks her out, she won't be interested anymore.

[quote=name:A_of-s_t]This girl obviously likes the chase; once he asks her out, she won't be interested anymore.[/quote] That's what I have a fear of lol.

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This girl obviously likes the chase; once he asks her out, she won't be interested anymore.

That's what I have a fear of lol.

Well, you have a lot to fear because that's what most girls want -- a chase. They love that sense of the unknown -- does he like me? Will he ask me out? Ect. I hate asking girls out... thank god I have a girlfriend already. :P

Well, you have a lot to fear because that's what most girls want -- a chase. They love that sense of the unknown -- does he like me? Will he ask me out? Ect. I hate asking girls out... thank god I have a girlfriend already.

[quote=name:MillenniumArmy] But you're right doodan, it is quite emasculating >.< maybe I should just slowly start avoiding this subject when hanging out with her :P[/quote] No, just tell her you're gonna start charging for therapy.

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But you're right doodan, it is quite emasculating >.< maybe I should just slowly start avoiding this subject when hanging out with her

No, just tell her you're gonna start charging for therapy.

[quote=name:Syphon][quote=name:DT_Battlekruser][color=#b5b5ff]The common view of ostensibly "serious relationships" as a linear progression toward sex is wholly disturbing..[/color][/quote] It's more exponential. ;)[/quote] [color=#b5b5ff]Touche :P It always makes me laugh to see people talking about "love" and "dedication" and "care" and then measuring success in proximity to sex. Honestly, go to a frat party or something if that's all you care about.[/color]

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The common view of ostensibly "serious relationships" as a linear progression toward sex is wholly disturbing..

It's more exponential.

Touche

It always makes me laugh to see people talking about "love" and "dedication" and "care" and then measuring success in proximity to sex. Honestly, go to a frat party or something if that's all you care about.

It's because our society doesn't understand how to relax enough to take time off to care for each other. Besides, when your a guy, you get laughed at if you bring up the mushy stuff in a relationship.

It's because our society doesn't understand how to relax enough to take time off to care for each other. Besides, when your a guy, you get laughed at if you bring up the mushy stuff in a relationship.

[color=#b5b5ff]By society? That's why I hate it :P I ran across an excellent opinion on the subject on some other forum somewhere (JapanToday, Google tells me).[/color] [quote] ... When did "friendship" become a "bad word"? Can there be "love", without "friendship"? True, a person can mean that a significant other is more than a "friend", but this should not discount friendship as an element of their bond. Without friendship, the relationship appears to have suspect motives and arguably can be very coercive and problematic. Hmmmm... Maybe that is also part of the reason that divorce rates are so high or "love" turns to "hate" so quickly. But then that also brings up the point of people and societies having to be honest about sex and enjoying sex, as oppose to mislabeling "love"...[/quote]

By society? That's why I hate it

I ran across an excellent opinion on the subject on some other forum somewhere (JapanToday, Google tells me).

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When did "friendship" become a "bad word"? Can there be "love", without "friendship"?

True, a person can mean that a significant other is more than a "friend", but this should not discount friendship as an element of their bond. Without friendship, the relationship appears to have suspect motives and arguably can be very coercive and problematic. Hmmmm... Maybe that is also part of the reason that divorce rates are so high or "love" turns to "hate" so quickly. But then that also brings up the point of people and societies having to be honest about sex and enjoying sex, as oppose to mislabeling "love"...

[quote=name:EcHo]Yeah, [b]I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it[/b] and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.[/quote] Impossible on both counts. Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?

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Yeah, I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.

Impossible on both counts.
Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?

[quote=name:Anonymous][quote=name:EcHo]Yeah, [b]I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it[/b] and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.[/quote] Impossible on both counts. Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?[/quote] It's all about the mindset. I you believe, then you can control yourself. That's bullshit about how men's bodies are genetically programmed to like sex. Maybe pre-teens under puberty.

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Yeah, I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.

Impossible on both counts.
Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?

It's all about the mindset. I you believe, then you can control yourself. That's bullshit about how men's bodies are genetically programmed to like sex. Maybe pre-teens under puberty.

[quote] Impossible on both counts. Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?[/quote] You can like sex but not like the concept of sex. I bet someone somewhere didn't have sex. Your statement is a falsity. [quote]Fuck that. I hate initiating relationships. I don't think I've ever actually asked a girl out.[/quote] Yeah. Me neither.

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Impossible on both counts.
Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?

You can like sex but not like the concept of sex. I bet someone somewhere didn't have sex. Your statement is a falsity.

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Fuck that. I hate initiating relationships. I don't think I've ever actually asked a girl out.

Yeah. Me neither.

[quote=name:Anonymous][quote=name:EcHo]Yeah, [b]I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it[/b] and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.[/quote] Impossible on both counts. Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?[/quote] Yeah, mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex. Not for women though, they absolutely hate it. :P

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Yeah, I don't really like the idea and concept of sex. I could live without it and I prefer to have a great relationship with a girl.

Impossible on both counts.
Mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex, to spread seed, and your parents had sex, so you couldn't live without it, neh?

Yeah, mens' bodies are genetically programmed to like sex. Not for women though, they absolutely hate it.

[quote=name:EcHo] That's bullshit about how men's bodies are genetically programmed to like sex.[/quote] Ummmm, no... Sex is pleasurable, at least physically. We've evolved that way so that we are encouraged to pass on our genes. You can be averse to having sex, but you can't deny the human body is built for it. :P

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That's bullshit about how men's bodies are genetically programmed to like sex.

Ummmm, no... Sex is pleasurable, at least physically. We've evolved that way so that we are encouraged to pass on our genes.

You can be averse to having sex, but you can't deny the human body is built for it.