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Conversation with this one girl..

Apr 20 2008, 7:14 am
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MillenniumArmy

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Apr 20 2008, 7:14 am

MillenniumArmy Post #1

Technically, I am not suppose to tell anyone this, but what I am about to tell u is so ridiculous, i felt as though I need to share it with you guys.

This friend of mine and I have for the last several weeks been talking about her "relation" with this one boy she likes. She tells me every little detail that happens, and it's quite apparent that this guy likes her. However, despite all our attempts (she also told many of her friends this too) she still doesn't think he likes her.

So here's the conversation we just had:

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*this girl*: and i have some news regarding shinji too
(Reader's note: shinji is the nickname she gave to this boy she likes)
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: really
*this girl*: dont expect anything really though
*this girl*: =/
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: what do u mean "anything"
*this girl*: nothing big... at all
*this girl*: so... where did i leave you off at?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: i duno
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: i was studying for three tests last time i talked to u
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: but now im done :-)
*this girl*: yay
*this girl*: hm...
*this girl*: did you know i was mad at him?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: i knew that u deleted his sn
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: so that he'd talk to u and not vice versa
*this girl*: yeah
*this girl*: because he was all cold that day
*this girl*: i told you that right?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: like
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: was he gaming or something?
*this girl*: no studying
*this girl*: work
*this girl*: hmwk
*this girl*: he was just really cold
*this girl*: like "yeah, youre bothering me"
*this girl*: "k bye"
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: o
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: hmm
*this girl*: so i ignored him on monday
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: well
*this girl*: like i just waved... no smile
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: maybe he didn't mean it in a cold way
*this girl*: then i avoided him on wed
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: its hard to tell emotions through text mediums
*this girl*: yeah, but he didnt even say sorry
*this girl*: psh
*this girl*: anyway
*this girl*: on fri i felt bad...
*this girl*: so i became my cheery self again
*this girl*: and i guess he missed me?
*this girl*: he patted me on the head and gave me a hug
*this girl*: (he initiated both)
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: oo nice
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lol
*this girl*: and i told him " we should hang out sometime"
*this girl*: he said "yes, we should!"
*this girl*: so i told him "you should IM me then"
*this girl*: he said "ok"
*this girl*: all weekend, nothing. =___=
*this girl*: on sunday i decided to IM him
*this girl*: he was really nice this time and told me that he has a TON of work
*this girl*: he was all "sorry, *hug* blah lbha"
*this girl*: yeah
*this girl*: so i was like "sure, no prob. ganbatte ne! and get some sleep"
*this girl*: on mon and wed i see him and we hug both times
*this girl*: the hugs get longer and longer
*this girl*: >__>;;
*this girl*: AND
*this girl*: he added this "back rub" too
*this girl*: like his hands are at my waist ne? and he sort of moves them up and down a little
*this girl*: yeah...
*this girl*: are you getting this?
*this girl*: =___=;;;;;;
*this girl*: hello?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: yea
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: im here
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lol
*this girl*: did you read all that?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: yea
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: very interesting
*this girl*: good.
*this girl*: ok so moving on~
*this girl*: on fri, he comes out of his test
*this girl*: and talk to me, we hug... he tells me that he just bombed the test
*this girl*: then he walks in the opposite direction
*this girl*: so it's really obvious that he walked over just to talk to me
*this girl*: haha
*this girl*: yay
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: kk
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: u know what u should do next?
*this girl*: wait
*this girl*: lemme finish!
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lolol
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: kk
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn:

*this girl*: hold the thought though
*this girl*: i want to know....
*this girl*: anyway, on fri
*this girl*: i went to the oni orgy concert with 3 of my friends
*this girl*: and guess who was there?
*this girl*: shinji!
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lol
*this girl*: first he was playing SSB
*this girl*: and i wanted to watch so i went over
*this girl*: and patted him on the head (he was sittingo n the groud)
*this girl*: *ground
*this girl*: he was really nice
*this girl*: "have you eaten? did you just get here"?
*this girl*: yeah
*this girl*: he was there with a girl but they seemed to be just friends
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: ooooo
*this girl*: she told him " im going to go sit" he said "k bye" and didnt even look at her
*this girl*: then i told him "im going to go sit ..."
*this girl*: and he
*this girl*: hahahha
*this girl*: he rubbed my upper arm and said "k bye"
*this girl*: and looked at me
*this girl*: haha
*this girl*: rubbed my arm, dood....
*this girl*: then
*this girl*: after the concert
*this girl*: i spot him and we talk
*this girl*: he pats me on the head
*this girl*: i "punch" him
*this girl*: i hint to him about hanging out...
*this girl*: no not just hint, i say it
*this girl*: blatantly
*this girl*: he's all like... yeahhh sure sometime
*this girl*: =___=
*this girl*: i get annoyed and i tell him "fine. be that way, im never going to ask you to do anything again, baka"
*this girl*: hes all "sad"
*this girl*: meh
*this girl*: he pats me on the head
*this girl*: then initiates two hugs too
*this girl*: oh yeah
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lol
*this girl*: so one of my friends told me not to let go
*this girl*: and see how long a hug can last...
*this girl*: you know what....
*this girl*: he doesnt let go at all
*this girl*: ever
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: haha
*this girl*: if i dont let go, he doesnt
*this girl*: so we ended up hugging for like a minute
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: and that's it?
*this girl*: with him rubbing my back the whole time
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: no first base?
*this girl*: NO
*this girl*: NO WAY
*this girl*: haha
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: LOL
*this girl*: when i was going to leave
*this girl*: he reached over and rubbed my upper arm again
*this girl*: then he leaned in for another hug
*this girl*: sort of a side hug
*this girl*: and the top of my head pressed into his cheeck
*this girl*: *cheek
*this girl*: then i said bye
*this girl*: yeah
*this girl*: thats a quick recap
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lol
*this girl*: oh, he told me that he's still busy
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: u know what u should do now?
*this girl*: lame.
*this girl*: what?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: on facebook
*this girl*: facebook?!
*this girl*: eh
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: in the relationship status, it says u're still single
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: what u need to do, is change it
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: ;-)

*this girl*: what
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: lmao
*this girl*: why
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: jk jk

JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: cuz it's quite apparent
*this girl*: you give the worst advice ever
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: that he's really treating u special
*this girl*: how so?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: everything
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: u just told me
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: all fits together
*this girl*: explain
*this girl*: because apparently im the only one that still doesnt think he likes me
*this girl*: i still dont think so...
*this girl*: oh lemme mention, when we talk, we stand really close
*this girl*: OH and my friends saw the hug... the "8 min hug" she calls it =___=;;
*this girl*: and she says that his hands are quite low on my waist... if that means anything
...

And it's still going on as I am typing this post.

So tell me, just from this post ALONE, it's obvious that this guy likes her but for some reason, she won't get it. How should I tell her? Or what do u guys think?

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Apr 20 2008, 7:18 am T-MaStAA Post #2

Do you ever talk to the guy? She is obviously not the most self confident person around. Get the guy to fuckin jump on dat n do something crazy romantic or something. dont bother trying to guide the vag, guide the cock.

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Apr 20 2008, 7:22 am

MillenniumArmy Post #3

Quote from T-MaStAA

Oh i forgot to mention this, but the real problem behind all of this is, I dont even know this guy. All I know about him is what this girl tells me. I've seen a picture of him on facebook, but that's it. If I actually knew this guy, I'd be talking to him about all of this and discussing things with him.

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Apr 20 2008, 7:25 am

Doodan Post #4

He has her wrapped around his finger, so he can do whatever - whenever - he wants. It's the uncertainty that she finds insanely attractive. As long as she doesn't have a clear answer, as long as she can't quite find the closure, she's hooked.

And MA, unless you're deliberately researching them, never EVER EVER EVER be a girl's sounding board. It's so emasculating.

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Apr 20 2008, 7:29 am

DT_Battlekruser Post #5

Haha, that reminds me that there's this one girl in my math class that every other day in the hall when we're waiting for discussion it's like open forum time for her relationship issues (except of course in this case it's public). This girl sounds exactly like her, it's kind of uncanny. If I didn't know where you went to school, I would be scared

What can I say? Some people are messed up; but not your problem. Sooner or later she will have to come to terms with the truth.

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Apr 20 2008, 7:41 am

DevliN Post #6

OVERWATCH STATUS GO

There is waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much head-patting going on.

But seriously he's got the hots for her, even I can tell that based on what you posted. No one hugs and head-pats that much without liking someone.

$\:devlin\:$ Currently Working On: $\:devlin\:$
My Overwatch addiction.

Apr 20 2008, 9:52 am

The Starport Post #7

Sounds pretty typical.

Just note that if he's not succeeding in properly communicating to her his intent (even if he really likes her), or visa versa, that could be a setup for other problems down the road. My advice would be to get that shit squared away first.

Edit: Fuckin typos...

Post has been edited 6 time(s), last time on Apr 20 2008, 10:53 am by Tuxedo-Templar.

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Apr 20 2008, 10:57 am

Rantent Post #8

What's with patting people on the head?
Is she a dog or something?

Quote from MA

*this girl*: did you read all that?
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: yea
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: very interesting
*this girl*: good.

This cracks me up the most.

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Apr 20 2008, 5:20 pm

Fire_Kame Post #9

wth is starcraft

HE'S NOT INTO HER.

It doesn't matter that they hug and chat in public, if every time she tries to talk to her he's not ready, he's probably just being a horny prick.

Apr 20 2008, 5:25 pm

Echo Post #10

I know this isnt relevant but I thought that guys were the ones that are supose to chase girls most of the time. This is like the exact opposite with me and this girl.

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Apr 20 2008, 5:30 pm

Fire_Kame Post #11

wth is starcraft

You're far too traditional. I initiate most things in a relationship. And unfortunately...it usually gets a girl hurt...

Apr 20 2008, 5:53 pm

Doodan Post #12

The initiator is taking a big risk. That's just how it is regardless of gender.

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Apr 20 2008, 6:32 pm

dumbducky Post #13

You silly asians, always patting each other on the head and hugging

tits

Apr 20 2008, 6:40 pm

Vi3t-X Post #14

I am offended. CheF Kitteh #2, ATTACK!

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Apr 20 2008, 7:04 pm

DevliN Post #15

OVERWATCH STATUS GO

Quote from MillenniumArmy

JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: maybe he didn't mean it in a cold way
*this girl*: then i avoided him on wed
JayYouEsTeaEyeAn: its hard to tell emotions through text mediums
*this girl*: yeah, but he didnt even say sorry

Girls... wtf. I forgot I was going to comment on this in my earlier post. I knew a ton of girls who had this exact same thought process. If someone doesn't want to talk to them over AIM or MSN or the like, they go crazy and assume that person wants to ignore them. But they were like 15 at the time and I have yet to encounter that since, so who knows. Maybe its an age thing?

How old is this chick, MA?

$\:devlin\:$ Currently Working On: $\:devlin\:$
My Overwatch addiction.

Apr 20 2008, 7:17 pm

DT_Battlekruser Post #16

MA's at college, so I would guess around 20. Honestly, a lot of girls are like that and it just doesn't change. Some days I am glad to not have an IM (I only use MSN for internet people like you all)

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You silly asians, always patting each other on the head and hugging

As opposed to...?

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Apr 20 2008, 7:22 pm

DevliN Post #17

OVERWATCH STATUS GO

Yeah, I suppose that's true. I just remember a lot of that near the end of junior high and the beginning of high school.

$\:devlin\:$ Currently Working On: $\:devlin\:$
My Overwatch addiction.

Apr 20 2008, 7:32 pm

MillenniumArmy Post #18

This girl is a freshmen in college, just turned 19. The guy is also her same year, but an engineering student. She, and this guy are both Asians.

This girl is a VERY VERY girly girl. She LOVES animes and dramas and loves speaking japanese despite being a FOB from China. You can label her as an outlier when it comes to categorizing girls however you want (literally lol). She is VERY unconfidence as many of you guys have speculated. In past conversations through AIM or phone I'd always tell her to take some form of initiative or something to "test" if he really likes her but she just wouldn't/couldn't do it; she ardenly claims that she's not that person and always wants the guy to do w/e first.

As for the head patting, hugging, and "punching," that's just from my perspective these two's way of building up their relation; getting more comfortable with each other. He did however, ask this girl out to eat at some sushi places and all many times in the past, he wasn't totally quiet. He's been doing this more and more at least from the girl's side of the story. IMO it's just that this girl doesn't seem to realize that he likes her when EVERYBODY else, even her girl friends, all draw the same conclusion that this guy likes her. Maybe like some of you said, she'll gradually learn to accept it.

These are low confident asian people we're talking; I highly doubt either of them are anywhere near thinking about hitting a grand slam. Many friends of this girl have found these two people's "relationship" to be just like those animes/mangas/dramas. I just take it that the guy has really low confidence and doesn't know how to make things progress. But like I mentioned earlier, the real problem is I don't know this guy. If I talked to him, then I'd know how to better talk to this girl about what to do.

But you're right doodan, it is quite emasculating >.< maybe I should just slowly start avoiding this subject when hanging out with her

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Apr 20 2008, 7:37 pm

lil-Inferno Post #19

Just here for the pie

He OBVIOUSLY doesn't like her

. Hmm, a one minute hug, and a backrub? This is serious business!

Off-topic:
I found out that your name is Justin because of your s/n

Apr 20 2008, 7:45 pm

Fire_Kame Post #20

wth is starcraft

Want to talk to him? This is what you say: "You hurt her, and I'll hurt you." I dunno why, but my guy friend did that to one of the guys I was dating...and the poor boy snapped.

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