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Dating Advice
Oct 4 2010, 2:50 pm
By: Norm
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Oct 7 2010, 3:58 am Norm Post #61



Quote from Neki
People always saying ignore the girl and just act non-nonchalant around them and they'll love you much more for it, but how true is this actually though?

It depends on the type and the stage of the relationship, but if used correctly it is extremely effective. It's basically a balancing act on your part of showing you care, but being slightly out of reach. It drives girls crazy. A similar technique to use if still in the pre-relationship stages is called quiet intensity and it basically works the same way. You're mysterious, out of reach, etc. Girls will feel rewarded if you break the silence and actually are willing to talk to them. It makes them feel 'special' so to say. The only drawback with QI is that you're going to have to keep it up all the time otherwise it's not going to work too well when you need it to. Sometimes you're better off just going with traditional wooing techniques.



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Oct 7 2010, 4:14 am ThedarKOne Post #62



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It's not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean, or so they say. It really depends on the woman though. Some chicks will be fine with whatever if you can at least use the shit and please 'em, but others want the big stuff and won't settle for less (whores).



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Oct 7 2010, 5:05 am Neki Post #63



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Quote from Neki
People always saying ignore the girl and just act non-nonchalant around them and they'll love you much more for it, but how true is this actually though?

It depends on the type and the stage of the relationship, but if used correctly it is extremely effective. It's basically a balancing act on your part of showing you care, but being slightly out of reach. It drives girls crazy. A similar technique to use if still in the pre-relationship stages is called quiet intensity and it basically works the same way. You're mysterious, out of reach, etc. Girls will feel rewarded if you break the silence and actually are willing to talk to them. It makes them feel 'special' so to say. The only drawback with QI is that you're going to have to keep it up all the time otherwise it's not going to work too well when you need it to. Sometimes you're better off just going with traditional wooing techniques.

Gotta show me how to pull this off, sounds epic. :awesome:



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Oct 7 2010, 10:16 am Alzarath Post #64

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The best way is to try to understand exactly why you have misanthropic feelings, and just get over it.

Besides that, man it's justifiable that sometime there just isn't any reason to being in a relationship. From a technical standpoint, relationships, marriage, etc... all these things are inventions of the human mind and are in no way natural. However, if you lack the ability or desire to engage in sexual interaction, then you may just be defective biologically because animals are designed in a way to make the transfer of DNA from parent to offspring a top priority. This is completely unrelated to relationships in a natural sense (but highly related in a societal setting). To each his own, man.

I actually posted for the lulz. :awesome:

I'm aware relationships are useless, and counter-productive. And yeh, I'd like to think I'm not allured by sexual urges, but I am. :\



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Oct 7 2010, 12:38 pm poison_us Post #65

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Quote from Neki
Quote from Norm
Quote from Neki
People always saying ignore the girl and just act non-nonchalant around them and they'll love you much more for it, but how true is this actually though?

It depends on the type and the stage of the relationship, but if used correctly it is extremely effective. It's basically a balancing act on your part of showing you care, but being slightly out of reach. It drives girls crazy. A similar technique to use if still in the pre-relationship stages is called quiet intensity and it basically works the same way. You're mysterious, out of reach, etc. Girls will feel rewarded if you break the silence and actually are willing to talk to them. It makes them feel 'special' so to say. The only drawback with QI is that you're going to have to keep it up all the time otherwise it's not going to work too well when you need it to. Sometimes you're better off just going with traditional wooing techniques.

Gotta show me how to pull this off, sounds epic. :awesome:
I did it last year with a girl (high school...sophomore now, methinks) that had a huge crush on me, even though I (college freshman) had a girlfriend (high school senior) and I didn't even realize it. Until after she stalked me.





Oct 7 2010, 11:17 pm TiKels Post #66



Quote from poison_us
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Quote from Neki
People always saying ignore the girl and just act non-nonchalant around them and they'll love you much more for it, but how true is this actually though?

It depends on the type and the stage of the relationship, but if used correctly it is extremely effective. It's basically a balancing act on your part of showing you care, but being slightly out of reach. It drives girls crazy. A similar technique to use if still in the pre-relationship stages is called quiet intensity and it basically works the same way. You're mysterious, out of reach, etc. Girls will feel rewarded if you break the silence and actually are willing to talk to them. It makes them feel 'special' so to say. The only drawback with QI is that you're going to have to keep it up all the time otherwise it's not going to work too well when you need it to. Sometimes you're better off just going with traditional wooing techniques.

Gotta show me how to pull this off, sounds epic. :awesome:
I did it last year with a girl (high school...sophomore now, methinks) that had a huge crush on me, even though I (college freshman) had a girlfriend (high school senior) and I didn't even realize it. Until after she stalked me.
Careful, it's really easy to get carried away... I'm gonna leave that there.



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Oct 8 2010, 3:32 am Norm Post #67



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Quote from Neki
People always saying ignore the girl and just act non-nonchalant around them and they'll love you much more for it, but how true is this actually though?

It depends on the type and the stage of the relationship, but if used correctly it is extremely effective. It's basically a balancing act on your part of showing you care, but being slightly out of reach. It drives girls crazy. A similar technique to use if still in the pre-relationship stages is called quiet intensity and it basically works the same way. You're mysterious, out of reach, etc. Girls will feel rewarded if you break the silence and actually are willing to talk to them. It makes them feel 'special' so to say. The only drawback with QI is that you're going to have to keep it up all the time otherwise it's not going to work too well when you need it to. Sometimes you're better off just going with traditional wooing techniques.

Gotta show me how to pull this off, sounds epic. :awesome:

Very simple. It's basically a mind game. By putting on a certain act that believes certain traits, the people you interact with will start to believe these traits as well. After a certain amount of time, you're just you, but chicks see so much more. You're basically letting the chicks imagine how impressive you are without you having to do anything. The only downside is that you could end up looking like a total moron if you don't have a lot of confidence, charisma and stuff like that to back it up.



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Oct 8 2010, 3:46 am Neki Post #68



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Quote from Neki
People always saying ignore the girl and just act non-nonchalant around them and they'll love you much more for it, but how true is this actually though?

It depends on the type and the stage of the relationship, but if used correctly it is extremely effective. It's basically a balancing act on your part of showing you care, but being slightly out of reach. It drives girls crazy. A similar technique to use if still in the pre-relationship stages is called quiet intensity and it basically works the same way. You're mysterious, out of reach, etc. Girls will feel rewarded if you break the silence and actually are willing to talk to them. It makes them feel 'special' so to say. The only drawback with QI is that you're going to have to keep it up all the time otherwise it's not going to work too well when you need it to. Sometimes you're better off just going with traditional wooing techniques.

Gotta show me how to pull this off, sounds epic. :awesome:

Very simple. It's basically a mind game. By putting on a certain act that believes certain traits, the people you interact with will start to believe these traits as well. After a certain amount of time, you're just you, but chicks see so much more. You're basically letting the chicks imagine how impressive you are without you having to do anything. The only downside is that you could end up looking like a total moron if you don't have a lot of confidence, charisma and stuff like that to back it up.

I don't even see why we need to be playing mind-games in the first place, sounds very over the top. I didn't realize it took a lot of effort to come off as a jerk, a lot of people do it naturally as far as I can see. :hurr:



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Oct 8 2010, 3:55 am Norm Post #69



Oh.... This is something very different from being a jerk. Contrary to popular belief, being a 'jerk' is no way to get in a relationship.

*However, I have witnessed that it is an effective way to pick up drunk chicks.



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Oct 12 2010, 2:16 am rayNimagi Post #70



How can you make a girl stop talking or talk about something that actually interests you?

If the above is not possible, where can you find girls interested in StarCraft?



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Oct 12 2010, 2:36 am poison_us Post #71

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Quote from rayNimagi
How can you make a girl stop talking or talk about something that actually interests you?
Impossible.

Quote from rayNimagi
If the above is not possible, where can you find girls interested in StarCraft?
Korea.





Oct 12 2010, 4:24 am Norm Post #72



Quote from poison_us
Quote from rayNimagi
How can you make a girl stop talking or talk about something that actually interests you?
Impossible.
Sometimes you just gotta ignore them, or if it gets really bad, don't be afraid to tell them to stop talking about dumb shit.

Quote from rayNimagi
If the above is not possible, where can you find girls interested in StarCraft?
Korea.

This.




Unfortunately, it looks like SEN is pretty set for now as far as dating goes...



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Oct 12 2010, 5:01 am Neki Post #73



If I ever find the perfect girl I'll ask, but so far, no luck. :(



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Oct 12 2010, 5:20 am payne Post #74

:payne:

I have a crush on this perfect girl for now a year...
This summer, I've passed 10 days with her and her friends on a bike trip. At the end, she told me she didn't know I was "like that" (in a positive way).
Then, during the current college session, my love kept growing. She seemed to be interested at the start, but I didn't know what to do, and now I think she's kind of uninterested... and I think I've fallen once again into the friend-zone.
I'm meeting her tomorrow to study for our chemistry exam and all I'm asking for, is to have the courage to ask her out. But I'm so fucking shy... How am I supposed to bring this into a study-like conversation?



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Oct 12 2010, 8:47 pm Norm Post #75



Quote from payne
I have a crush on this perfect girl for now a year...
This summer, I've passed 10 days with her and her friends on a bike trip. At the end, she told me she didn't know I was "like that" (in a positive way).
Then, during the current college session, my love kept growing. She seemed to be interested at the start, but I didn't know what to do, and now I think she's kind of uninterested... and I think I've fallen once again into the friend-zone.
I'm meeting her tomorrow to study for our chemistry exam and all I'm asking for, is to have the courage to ask her out. But I'm so fucking shy... How am I supposed to bring this into a study-like conversation?

You're in the friend zone. However, all is not lost. You just have to man up and break the ice. Just ask her something like "Hey, have you ever thought about us going out?"



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Oct 12 2010, 9:15 pm MadZombie Post #76



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"Hey, have you ever thought about us going out?"
Just don't forget to play it off. If she says EW NO/Negative response you respond with "oh lol just wondering" and if she says yes/positive response then you jump on it.



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Oct 12 2010, 10:09 pm poison_us Post #77

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JUMP ON IT! JUMP ON IT!
God I love randomness.





Oct 13 2010, 2:30 am rayNimagi Post #78



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Unfortunately, it looks like SEN is pretty set pathetic for now as far as dating goes...

fix'd.



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Oct 13 2010, 4:11 am Riney Post #79

Thigh high affectionado

Help norm, she has a beard.



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Oct 13 2010, 4:48 am Doodan Post #80



How do I get her to let me put it in her butt?



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