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Post has been edited 1 time(s), last time on Jul 22 2010, 2:34 am by BlueWolf.

Dump that ho. Let her go. I'd say she's just either not that into you anymore, or she's a cheater. Either way, I'd move on. Or deny her phone privileges if you decide to give her another chance

Post has been edited 1 time(s), last time on Jun 12 2010, 7:22 pm by NerdyTerdy.

Break up with her.

I already talked to my parents about it. They were really hoping she would be the bearer to their grandchildren. I've known this girl for 8 years. We've been best friends since I met her. Perhaps it's the way it should have stayed.
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Post has been edited 1 time(s), last time on Jul 22 2010, 2:22 am by BlueWolf.

If she goes... I'm keeping the new rig!!! >:l
Gonna give her this song as a goodbye.

Well, sorry you're struggling right now. Good luck to you. Have you decided what you're going to do if she doesn't break up with you? ;o

Given the number of times this has happened in the past, it does seem like she thinks there's something missing between you two. Maybe she's afraid to admit it, even to herself. Also, if she was dating a girl, is she actually a lesbian? Bi?

But seriously, SEN is the wrong place to ask for this kind of advice. Do you have friends IRL who know her, even a little? It's hard to say anything with details so few and sketchy.

I just can't help but think that it won't go in that direction, so no.

Break up with her, she's not worth the trouble. If this is the third time she's done this, odds are that she won't change. Let her go; maybe she'll learn her lesson eventually.

And when I say break up with her, I really mean break up with her. Don't be friends with her afterward, you'll end up thinking you two might have another chance, when you really won't.

I tried to tell her that she was a bisexual, since she did tell the other girl she loved her. She felt strong about being straight, so I just let it be afterwards.

Her and I work at the same place, and we've worked there since we left High School, which was in '08.
Basically the only good friends I have left are the ones at work.

I know sen isn't the best place, but I just need to talk to someone...

I had a similar problem, not with phones and maybe not as serious, but you kinda get the idea.

My question would be the following, not towards you or your girlfriend in specific, but why is it that people keep such things on their cellphone knowing that pretty much anyone can take a look, especially their relationship partner?
My cellphone? I just make calls on it, don't need text, internet or nothing. A few funny pictures I took and that's it.
My computer? No pictures of anyone besides a few of myself, no chat conversations or anything of the sort.
My Facebook? That's another story, but there's nothing intimate in there. Sure there's pictures of me with other women, but it's clear that's they're just friendship pictures. Pictures of me being intimate? I don't make them public and I don't want them at all. She can have them.

Sure, if you aren't "cheating" of "flirting" around with anyone else it's cool, but if you are, what's the point of saving those items? The risks are far too great, it'd be best just to say up front.

DTBK always gives people shit for talking about their real life. Lol.

So, you guys working together might end up being weird assuming you do in fact break up, huh? And, I personally think you should have a plan if she doesn't break up with you (I mean she didn't break up with you before, why this time?). You could also consider the possibility of an open relationship. But that would be validating her behavior, and you might not be interested in that sort of thing. I dunno. Consider your options. Don't turn your brain off just cause you're hurting.

Saving the items... so many memories. 2 years, was going to be 3 in november. It probably hurts the most because it's the longest relationship I've been in.

Your post has made me want to just let it go, relieve myself of this stress.


I loved this girl so much that I was actually considering this before your post. I just wanted to be with her. I really don't want to sleep by myself either... Oh yeah, we live together.

When I was talking to my parents about this, I realized how much I've been held back because of this relationship. I've been out of school for a year now thanks to work and a packed community college.

Having a gf is hard at times, knowing that I can't leave the house without telling her where I was going. It gets really annoying.

Assuming things do go bad, I've already planned some things out. I'm going to try to move ahead asap. I won't leave my work place just because her and I work together. I will, however, go on the look for a different job.

I'm going to save money to go to school again, since most of my money has been spent on her and my computer.

This.

Remind her that she can't go on the same without you, remind her that you aren't just something to throw away, at least make her regret it every single day shes with this guy.

That or you could just blow her head off. Your choice ;D

Dude, thing you must understand about females is that you can't let them get inside your head like this.

I tell you what: This chick is putting you on the back burner. Are you happy with that? If you don't have a problem with being leftovers, then continue to put up with the shit. Just remember that there is always a better girl out there, and you're just too lazy to go find her.

P.S. 3 years of that? man... I have a hard time putting up with mine for 3 years and she doesn't even do that kind of shit lol...

I think at this point it's safe to say you don't have to tell her shit about where you're going or what you're doing.

Oh yeah, i just thought of something. You should totally dump her, and take your time afterwards bathing in your new found freedom.

....If you miss her eventually, you can always go back out.

If you honestly feel that burdened and held back by the relationship, you should end it yourself. Relationships shouldn't be a burden like that. And yeah, if you find out it's really not what you wanted, she'll probably take you back given how she's been acting these three years.

Dump her.