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Dear Falkoner:
Yes, but sex should only be done between married couples, protection is when they want to enjoy each other, but not have a kid, it's not for teens and unmarried people to have sex with no consequences.
This is one reason why I'm glad I don't live in a Theocracy, where another person's religious beliefs interfere with the actions of two (or more) consenting adults. It is perfectly fine that
you want to practice abstinence, but understand that your views are not relevent or applicable to all no matter how strongly you believe in them. Fact is, there are hundreds of active religions (compounded with numerous differing interpretations), and thousands of defunct religions (Aztecs, Greek myth, etc), but none have any more proof over any other religion that they are the correct choice.
Having sex doesn't require experience to do it properly, it's not that difficult of a process.
Is this coming from personal experience? Unless you're married, given your beliefs I doubt it. Not to boast, but speaking from experience myself, I can tell you there is quite a bit to learn if you care at all about a mutually beneficial experience.
I highly doubt this should be an issue for us to be talking about because I'm pretty sure none of you guys are going to get any action no matter how hard you try.
no but seriously, I don't seem to see what's wrong with protection. Pretty much the only major group that seems to be against the use of protection are Catholics.
Religion fucks up everything. If someone wants to use protection, let them. If they want to enjoy sex with there partner and choose not to use a form of contraception, let them.
Religion + (INSERT TEXT HERE) = SCREWED UP!
The point I'm making is that only catholics are against the use of protection (and mormons too if devilesk is right) and no one else. That does not equate to religion fucking up everything. A religion will only seem as bad as the people who practice them, like Scientology.
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Is this coming from personal experience? Unless you're married, given your beliefs I doubt it. Not to boast, but speaking from experience myself, I can tell you there is quite a bit to learn if you care at all about a mutually beneficial experience.
A marriage isn't all about the sex, I plan on being married to the person for many many years, I think I can learn just fine during that time, I don't need to practice and ruin my experience by doing it with someone I won't be with forever.
This is one reason why I'm glad I don't live in a Theocracy, where another person's religious beliefs interfere with the actions of two (or more) consenting adults. It is perfectly fine that you want to practice abstinence, but understand that your views are not relevent or applicable to all no matter how strongly you believe in them. Fact is, there are hundreds of active religions (compounded with numerous differing interpretations), and thousands of defunct religions (Aztecs, Greek myth, etc), but none have any more proof over any other religion that they are the correct choice.
This is an opinion related question, so I answered with my opinion.
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STF mod creator, Modcrafters.com admin, CampaignCreations.org staff
Dear Falkoner:
A marriage isn't all about the sex, I plan on being married to the person for many many years, I think I can learn just fine during that time, I don't need to practice and ruin my experience by doing it with someone I won't be with forever.
No, of course it isn't. But if I may ask, what is the main difference between a best friend you live with and a wife (beyond the contract and any religious ceremony)? Intimacy. Experience does in fact help in a variety of ways and situations, as it does with anything.
Now, I understand your viewpoint, and you're free to decide whatever you'd like. That's not the purpose of my argument, to alter your personal choices. Instead, I am debating against your assertion that everyone else should follow that same choice. Naturally, you aren't in a position to enforce your beliefs on anyone, and I am not assuming that is your intent, but that is what your opinion implies. If you had the authority and power to implement your opinion, would you?
This is an opinion related question, so I answered with my opinion.
Of course it is, what else would it be? By volunteering your opinion, you open it up for discussion. That is the nature of a forum.
No, of course it isn't. But if I may ask, what is the main difference between a best friend you live with and a wife (beyond the contract and any religious ceremony)? Intimacy. Experience does in fact help in a variety of ways and situations, as it does with anything.
I think I'd feel a lot better knowing my partner was a virgin like myself, rathrr than finding out they had sex with some other guy.
If you had the authority and power to implement your opinion, would you?
I would certainly would do so, sex before marriage causes more problems than it solves.
Of course it is, what else would it be? By volunteering your opinion, you open it up for discussion. That is the nature of a forum.
but understand that your views are not relevent or applicable to all no matter how strongly you believe in them.
Your opinion.
Falkoner just wants abstinence because he can't get girls
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Why are you against it? If it is you that is against protection, then
you should follow your beliefs ( as you have stated ). Why does it matter that other people use it for fun? Is it the problem that maybe when you get married and you find out that your wife had sex with another man? If so, your wife should have been honest to you in the first place. Problem solved.
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If you had the authority and power to implement your opinion, would you?
I would certainly would do so, sex before marriage causes more problems than it solves.
Let's all celebrate the fact that Falkoner will never get the power to force upon the rest of us such a ridiculous belief.
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If you had the authority and power to implement your opinion, would you?
I would certainly would do so, sex before marriage causes more problems than it solves.
Let's all celebrate the fact that Falkoner will never get the power to force upon the rest of us such a ridiculous belief.
I agree with falk almost completely.
Because we make sex look all glorified in society, it makes it even more appealing to kids when we say "no, you can't until later". Kids always have and always will want something now as opposed to later. In light of this, I am grateful for condoms so I don't have to deal with their screwed up children, but I wish it didn't have to be that way. If everyone only had sex once they were married, the # of people infected with sti's would greatly decrease. Also, there are thousands of statistics out their showing that early marriage(17-20) fail miserably, and some %50 of them end in devorce.(look up your own statistic, but you'll see I'm right). Less sti infected people, less divorce which equals better parenting, what is not to like?? but that's in an ideal world. Until then, use a condom if you are weak and cannot wait.
But the essence of the condom is so you don't have to be responsible.
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If you had the authority and power to implement your opinion, would you?
I would certainly would do so, sex before marriage causes more problems than it solves.
Let's all celebrate the fact that Falkoner will never get the power to force upon the rest of us such a ridiculous belief.
Add Jello-Jigglers alongside Falkoner.
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But the essence of the condom is so you don't have to be responsible.
Being responsible is using a condom.
Quote from name:Donkey Punch
If you had the authority and power to implement your opinion, would you?
I would certainly would do so, sex before marriage causes more problems than it solves.
Let's all celebrate the fact that Falkoner will never get the power to force upon the rest of us such a ridiculous belief.
That, and I retain the good old Libertarian view that if people don't give a damn about my morals, they should have the legal right to live their lives that way.[/color]
Wooo, celebration from DTBK.
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I believe this thread is pretty much solved...
The fact is that religious people shouldn't give a damn about what non-moralistic people think, and non-moralistic people shouldn't give a damn about what moralistic people think.
I mean if your fine with accidentally knocking a girl up and then leaving her the baby, go for it. No one should be able to contradict you unless God burns you to the ground himself. Religious people should be able to respect that in some vague way. Assuming God exists, God gave you the choice: live life the way he wanted you to, or don't at your own risk. So why should a religious person be able to interfere with that choice?
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That's true.
But assuming there was nothing wrong with it.
I.E. Your roommate wants to have some fun. You both agree with what's going to happen, neither of you are drunk or underage, and are well aware of the consequences (if underage really is a problem, I think it is for the record). However, you're unprotected and unmarried. Why does that give someone the right to invade your beliefs? It shouldn't.
Now I can understand if it did hurt someone then that would be a problem, but I don't believe that's what this topic is about.
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STF mod creator, Modcrafters.com admin, CampaignCreations.org staff
Dear DT_Battlekruser:
The word I used was intimacy, not sex. Sex is a significant facet of intimacy, but it is not the whole of the concept. I then went on to say that experience helps. Experience in dating helps one relate to the opposite gender. Experience in kissing helps establish a strong physical connection, etc etc. All this builds on your confidence and self-esteem.
Also, my question about the difference between a best friend and a wife has nothing to do with dissociating friendship from love. You can deeply love, care for, and share a mutual trust with a good friend. A relationship is, or should, at its core
be a friendship. Ideally, your wife is your best friend. But if you remove the best friend aspect from a wife or girlfriend, what are you left with?
Dear Falkoner:
Not everyone believes in marriage, nor does a marriage concretely protect against any of the potential dangers of premarital sex. You can still get pregnant, get divorced, or contract an STD from an unfaithful or dishonest spouse.
although they somewhat do condoms are not meant to prevent pregnancy, they are made to stop the spreading of STD's and STI's. who could say they WANT one of those?
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Condoms have opened the doors for extra-marital affairs. They have enabled those who sleep with their boss to get a promotion, without negative consequences. And (because people don't generally carry their used condoms until they find a trash can) they have added a garbage item that is on the more disgusting end of the garbage spectrum.
I'm for the use of them, but most people don't realize the social implications of their use.
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