Ignore the troll posts and you're realize a majority of us agree.

Then again what were you expecting from posting about this here?

One thing is constant, though, everyone wants to know how old you are as that would help our suggestions.

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2. Give commodity to target.
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4. PROFIT!!!

Ask yourself why you like her, ask yourself what you can gain from being with her, and then ask yourself if it's worth it. If it is, just ask. If you think she likes you, your chances are much better than asking someone whom you don't think has any interest.

Just bloody ask her if she would like to hang out some time. Be you. Damn.

Based on the content of his posts in SD (and also his quaint idea that he should make this girl a paper heart...), I'd say 14. Maybe 15.

I think Lanthanide's probably right about stuff. Age seems right, and I'm not really into girls who don't like Starcraft, so there's my opinion on that. >.> I'm going with everyone else and saying that you probably shouldn't make her anything straight off, and you should probably take a more casual approach. If it were Valentine's Day or something, you could probably get away with a card or something, but know that YOU DO NOT LOVE HER. Vocabulary is important here.

Also, if you really want to be sure because you're not man enough to be CAFG, find a mutual friend you (both) trust and have them ask some questions. Bam, you're Charlie Sheen.

Well I'd think there are no absolutes in building relationships with girls.

Yes it's great advice to "be yourself," but make sure you don't make awkward pauses in conversations when you find the only thing that comes to your mind is StarCraft.

Also try to be more active being friendly with others around you (e.g. in school) then it will be more natural for the girl to approach you. If you are socially isolated or awkward you won't have much in common, and, girls being social animals, it will be harder to maintain the relationship.

Just follow MY advice bro. Far superior.

Shit, I tell girls about my drug use before my StarCraft use. It's higher up on the 'we might not be compatible if you're not okay with this' list


Back on topic (sort of-ish): I've also noticed that not giving a shit works wonders. Older guys told me this when I was younger and I didn't listen, but I should have. At the beginning of this school year, I said 'fuck it, I'm not even going to bother with relationship bullshit this year.' Since then, a few of the hot girls (and a few not so hot ones ) I always wanted to talk to before have actually approached me. So, you could practice not giving a shit for future situations. I think you're too far gone in this one ;o

Edit: Also, by no means does not giving a shit excuse you from approaching a girl and asking her out. I was just giving an example of how it worked so well that it actually completely reversed the situation in my case.

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Don't be that ^ guy. If I wanted your oppinion I would have asked for it, and you have no idea what you're talking about. Maybe "parasitic bitch" was a little harsh; to be honest, I was just pissed at her because she ignored me all day yesterday. The whole thing about "not being yourself" doesn't really work. I did exactly that and it destroyed our friendship. Ironically, she was the one with social problems, and to my surprise, she only ever wanted to hang out to game. Me being the genious that I am, pretended like I was someone I wasn't and it turned her off.

I would say, if you want an actual relationship with someone you care about, be yourself.
If you're looking to get laid and don't really care how dumb or annoying she is, go ahead and act like someone you're not, and maybe while you're at it maybe you should reconsider your motives.

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You were close lath, a little older than your estimate but i never tell .

You act like someone you're not every day you walk outside with clothes on. Humans are social creatures, we respect other people's opinions and adjust our actions accordingly. You can pretend you're some hip unique true-to-yourself being, but a look at your wardrobe will say it all. Everyone at some level wants to fit in- dating is the same thing. Yes, you will occasionally find girls who have similar interests to nerds but they're rare and in my opinion pretty boring because they turn that "gamer girl" image into who they are, and all of them end up very similar (and very very rarely actually play any actual competitive games). You don't have to not be yourself, you just have to tone down aspects of your life that aren't as appealing to other people. Even though I play a ton of video games, I don't want to sit in my room with a girl every day doing that, I'd rather be going out, playing actual games/sports, or going to parties and meeting people. Whether we enjoy the same genre of computer games is so far down on my priorities it's not even worth mentioning, and because of the social stigma against gamers, doubly so. If a girl who I have similar interests to occasionally enjoys a lazy day like that, all the better, but I'm not going to hinge a relationship on whether a girl wants to sit and play games with me.

What is with not telling people about StarCraft? I met my current girlfriend that I've been dating for a year, and currently live with, over StarCraft: Brood War. She knew right away that I was an avid map maker, and she now knows that I'm pretty dedicated to competitive 1v1.

Just be yourself and don't hide stupid shit from a girl. People like and admire confidence more than conformity. Why would a girl find some random guy attractive if he doesn't even have the confidence to just be himself?

I actually thought that everyone telling him to not say anything about sc was just aj oke... Obviously, it's not that big of a deal; I mean, it's just a pastime. Almost all guys play video games. She'd have to be pretty ignorant to not believe that you played anything, especially since you are a teenager.

you met her through the game ? That's sorta of a lucky and different situation. I see it this way. If you share all your hobbies and act like who you are with your flaws and everything, then you have less chance of being in a relationship but when you do get in one you get a... uh... bigger catch I guess you could say? Neglecting to mention things that you think might not be a popular hobby or just not that interesting to her isn't so bad. Maybe in the long run but I would imagine tempz is dead set on getting this girl to like her or find out that she likes him or be in a relationship with her, w/e. We should focus on getting him with this girl first then we could help him decide if he and this girl are a good match. I think he should get some practice girls under his belt anyway :3

You're all bloody deluded.

Just say you're a gamer who does level design. Don't run from who you are though, or try to be somebody else. I don't want to hear any of this, "If you don't like who you are, then change!" new age bullshit. We are who we are who we are. We change slowly, all of us. But bloody hell if there is one thing I know is important in a relationship it is honesty.

Hey! something we agree on

fffffffffffffuuuuuu-

All he NEEDS to do is confess his feelings. Apparently she already likes him so he doesn't need to act like himself or anything else because he's already got her but they aren't in a relation ship yet. That's what matters right now.

So did you do anything yet Tempz :l

dick in a box - that's all he has to do.