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Talking to gurls.
Aug 30 2010, 10:12 pm
By: payne
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Aug 30 2010, 10:12 pm payne Post #1

:payne:

If you see a girl that looks very good to you, in those 2 situations, how would you engage a discussion with her?

1) You notice she keeps looking at you briefly
2) She doesn't seems to have even noticed you

This is a bit for myself (:blush:), but I am also extremely curious to know your individual answers.
:hurr:



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Aug 30 2010, 10:16 pm DevliN Post #2

OVERWATCH STATUS GO

1) I notice she might have a staring problem.
2) I keep going about my business and don't bother.

What advice are you actually looking for? Does she know you exist? Do you get the sense she's into you?



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Aug 30 2010, 10:18 pm Aristocrat Post #3



1. Don't give a damn.
2. Don't give a damn.

Unless she approaches me or has something that catches my interest, I have no reason to deliberately start a conversation.



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Aug 30 2010, 10:21 pm Roy Post #4

An artist's depiction of an Extended Unit Death

1. I start talking about StarCraft until I lose her interest.
2. I start talking about StarCraft until I gain her interest.

I apologize in advance if you wanted purely serious answers.




Aug 30 2010, 10:36 pm fat_flying_pigs Post #5



1) Well I do have a girlfriend.. but if I didn't, I would prolly leave her alone unless I could find a reasonable excuse to talk/move closer to her. I'd prolly only talk to her if there was time for it (say 15+ mins?). There are plenty of good looking women, but a lot of them are straight up bitches, and I really wouldn't bother with them. (I give all women bitch status until I see otherwise).
2) I do nothing; Trying to get a number/flirting/hooking up takes too much effort. I'd rather just play SC2/map.



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Aug 30 2010, 10:46 pm Alzarath Post #6

Praetor

1) I wouldn't notice, I don't really have any interest in girls anymore (NO, I don't have interest in guys either -.-)
2) Again, wouldn't notice. I tend to keep to myself.



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Aug 30 2010, 11:32 pm ClansAreForGays Post #7



1) "What are you looking at?" before she can respond "Wanna fight?!" *doesn't matter what she says back* "You trying to start a fight with me!" say the last one with a giggle on the end. If she's worth a dam at all she will laugh at this, and you go from there talking about anything, because the ice has been broken. If she stares at you blankly then she's a brain dead piece of shit so who cares what you she think of you after that.

2) Ask her a question about something you need help with, like where to find something. Be polite, but simultaneously disinterested. Like give her eye contact, but mid sentence look behind/around her while still talking. Leave an opening for her to give something extra after your answer. Extra point for making her think you are trying to talk at her, getting her hopes up. Even if shes thinking, "omomgomomg plz dont let this loser hit on me" and then you don't. she then thinks "omgomogmogmg i must be ugly"
Example, YOU: "Hey!" Don't show disinterest yet. Be very nice and smiling in your greeting.
Her: "uh, hi?" she gives you an awkward or bitchy response
YOU: "you know where the bathroom is?" This is when you stop making eye contact, and lose the smile - in mid sentence.
Her: wtf i got worked up over nothing! "It's right over there"
YOU: back to polite smiling and eye contact "Sorry, I've just never been here before." You just made it sound like you are ready to talk and possibly flirt with her. ITS A TRAP!
Her: "blah bla-" MOST IMPORTANT PART! As SOON as she starts talking start walking away, say towards the bathroom. Blow her the fuck off. Ignore her. So that it doesn't matter if the words were "get real loser" because she will not get it out. She basically loses the game if she responds at all to your small talk after the question. Now here's the beauty of nature, the girl will now evolve into your situation 1 girl, and you already know how to take it from there.

Keep playin' playa ;D




Aug 30 2010, 11:47 pm Ultraviolet Post #8



Dude, that's awesome CAFG. I've never known how to act disinterested AND initiate interaction.




Aug 30 2010, 11:50 pm Alzarath Post #9

Praetor

There's something Nerdy DOESN'T know about girls!? :O



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Aug 30 2010, 11:54 pm Bar Refaeli Post #10







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Aug 30 2010, 11:57 pm payne Post #11

:payne:

Lul, you start a convo but then run away? You'd do a fake run-away or would you really interrupt the whole conversation, go piss and move on when you're done, wishing you meet her up in the corridors or something? :/

P.S. Kame, give us some feedbacks/tips. ;)



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Aug 30 2010, 11:57 pm fat_flying_pigs Post #12



Quote from name:Raccoon
The guy looks like a creeper.



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Aug 31 2010, 1:21 am ClansAreForGays Post #13



Quote from payne
Lul, you start a convo but then run away? You'd do a fake run-away or would you really interrupt the whole conversation, go piss and move on when you're done, wishing you meet her up in the corridors or something? :/

P.S. Kame, give us some feedbacks/tips. ;)
The ideal setting for this method is a club, because it makes the walking away not awkward at all. I feel like I already went into a enough detail for you, so i'm thinking we have a language barrier.




Aug 31 2010, 3:14 am Falkoner Post #14



Look up an eBook called The Sexual Key, it's a pretty much amazing book that goes over the emotional state of women and how and why they react to things so differently from men, one of the best reads I've ever had.

Anyways, my take on the questions, and I'm assuming you're a high-schooler, like myself, so we'll go with a typical high-school setting/situation, just being in class together:

1) When she keeps glancing over at you, it's a sign that she's interested(unless you're doing something really weird), but make sure you don't start doing the same, women prefer guys who seem to have their own thing going, and aren't easily deterred by some girl glancing at them. Honestly, I would try to figure out what her intelligence level is a bit before trying anything, because different levels of girls respond better to different actions, your personality in the class also needs to be taken into account.

For example, I tend to be one of the most outspoken people in the class, as least during teacher's lessons, I'm extremely satirical/sarcastic and tend to be in a good mood. If the girl seems pretty chill but socially able, I might catch her in one of her glances one time, look her right in the eye, and give her a sideways smile and a wink. For me it works like a charm, it acts as basically a silent icebreaker, and when I chat with her a few minutes later we're both significantly more open. Once again, you really have to change it up depending on your personality, I'm a bit of a jokester, so by being very blunt and forward, and basically saying everything I'm thinking out loud, I come off really well, but it doesn't work for everyone, figure out something that suits you.

For #2, it's like I was saying, women are interested in men who seem to have their own life and their own plans going, not the guy who gets distracted from his plans by a few glances. Women want the typical romance-novel hero. He's disinterested in the woman, his life, his goals, and his quest take precedence over her, but that only makes her even more crazy about him. Don't try to confront her, or get her to notice you, have fun, be yourself, hang out with your bros(chicks dig guys with lots of bros), don't swoon over her, she wants you to be independent. After a bit of that, she'll turn into #1 situation, and you can go from there.



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Aug 31 2010, 3:23 am rayNimagi Post #15



Quote from payne
but I am also extremely curious to know your individual answers.

You're asking SEN for advice on women? :wut:



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Aug 31 2010, 3:56 am Fire_Kame Post #16

wth is starcraft

I've never stared at a guy because I thought he was attractive in any way. If I was staring its because they were doing something incredibly embarrassing or stupid.

Anyways, ask her if she likes Pacman.




Aug 31 2010, 3:59 am payne Post #17

:payne:

Quote from ClansAreForGays
Quote from payne
Lul, you start a convo but then run away? You'd do a fake run-away or would you really interrupt the whole conversation, go piss and move on when you're done, wishing you meet her up in the corridors or something? :/

P.S. Kame, give us some feedbacks/tips. ;)
The ideal setting for this method is a club, because it makes the walking away not awkward at all. I feel like I already went into a enough detail for you, so i'm thinking we have a language barrier.
I had a college scene in mind... mostly because I never go to clubs: those places are "Zomg, I gotz muney to spend, lets go get a one-night with some retarded bitch that thinks she's more beautiful with 5 inches of make-up on her goddamn face".

Quote from Fire_Kame
Anyways, ask her if she likes Pacman.
As ridiculous as it may sound, that looks kind of promising and funny at the same time. :awesome:



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Aug 31 2010, 4:02 am Fire_Kame Post #18

wth is starcraft

Quote from payne
Quote from Fire_Kame
Anyways, ask her if she likes Pacman.
As ridiculous as it may sound, that looks kind of promising and funny at the same time. :awesome:

That's what my bf and I do before the movie starts, we play Pacman. Wait, this isn't the movie date thread? Sry.




Aug 31 2010, 4:05 am DavidJCobb Post #19



Quote from payne
If you see a girl that looks very good to you
I'm gonna need specifics, payne.

How do hypothetical-I hypothetically feel about the hypothetical-girl in this hypothetical scenario? Pick any of the following:
  • Hypothetical-I am hypothetically attracted.
  • Hypothetical-I am in hypothetical love.
  • Hypothetical-I am a non-committing player and hypothetical-she has a hypothetically hot hypothetical ass.
  • Holy hypothetical shit, hypothetical-she is hypothetically fucking ugly!




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Aug 31 2010, 4:06 am payne Post #20

:payne:

Quote from Fire_Kame
Quote from payne
Quote from Fire_Kame
Anyways, ask her if she likes Pacman.
As ridiculous as it may sound, that looks kind of promising and funny at the same time. :awesome:

That's what my bf and I do before the movie starts, we play Pacman. Wait, this isn't the movie date thread? Sry.
How stupid do I look now? :unsure:
Quote from DavidJCobb
Quote from payne
If you see a girl that looks very good to you
I'm gonna need specifics, payne.

How do hypothetical-I hypothetically feel about the hypothetical-girl in this hypothetical scenario? Pick any of the following:
  • Hypothetical-I am hypothetically attracted.
  • Hypothetical-I am in hypothetical love.
  • Hypothetical-I am a non-committing player and hypothetical-she has a hypothetically hot hypothetical ass.
  • Holy hypothetical shit, hypothetical-she is hypothetically fucking ugly!




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